Whats app and conditioning of mind

This is my small attempt to make people aware about whats app and  messages which are popular in it and such a silly things.

 એક સંતની સભામા અચાનક એક છોકરી ઉભી થઈ…
એના ચેહરા પર થોડો આક્રોશ દેખાતો હતો……
એ કઈક કેહવા માંગતી હતી.
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સંતે એ છોકરીને પુછ્યુ -: બોલ દીકરી શુ વાત છે…?
છોકરીએ કહ્યુ :- મહારાજ, આ સમાજમાં છોકરાઓને
દરેક પ્રકારની આઝાદી હોય છે , એ કઇ પણ કરે , ગમે
ત્યા જાય, એમને કાંઈ વધારે ટોકા-ટોકી નથી હોતી.
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અને આની વિપરીત છોકરીઓ ને વાત વાત મા
ટોકવામા આવે છે,
આ નહી કરવાનુ , પેલુ ના કરાય
એકલા ક્યાય ના જવાય, ઘરે જલ્દી આવુ જવુ.વગેરે ,
વગેરે
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સંતે હળવુ સ્મિત રેલાવતા જવાબ આપ્યો.
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" બેટા તે કોઈ દીવસ લોખંડની દુકાનની બહાર પડેલા
લોખંડની ભારે ભારે ગાર્ડરો જોઈ છે…??
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આ ગાર્ડરો શિયાળો , ઉનાળો, ચોમાશું , અને રાત
હોય કે દીવસ એમ જ પડી રહેલા હોય છે,
તેમ છતા પણ એમનુ કાંઈ નુકસાન નથી થતુ, અને
એમનિ કીંમતમા પણ કાંઈ ફરક નથી પડતો.
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બસ છોકરાઓ માટે આ પ્રકારની વિચાર ધારણા છે આ
સમાજ માં.
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હવે જો એક સોની ની દુકાનમાં,
એક મોટી તીજોરી પછી એમા નાની તીજોરી,
અને એમા નાનકડી ડબ્બીમા રેશમના કપડા ઉપર
નજાકત થી મુકેલી હીરાની અંગુઠી…,
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કારણ…કે સોનીને ખબર છે કે જો આ હીરા પર થોડીક
પણ ખરોચ આવી તો આની કોઈ કીંમત નહી રહે…
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આ સમાજમા બેટીઓ ની એહમીયત આવી છે.
આખા ઘરને રોસન કરતી, ઝીલમીલાતી હીરાની અંગુઠી
જેવી…
જરાક અમથી ખરોચથી એની અને એના પરીવાર જોડે
કાંઈ પણ નથી રેહતુ…
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બસ આટલુ જ અંતર છે છોકરીઓ અને છોકરાઓમાં
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આખી સભા સ્તબધ થઈ ગઈ,
એ છોકરી ની સાથે આખી સભાની આખોમાં છુપાયેલી
નમીમાં હીરા અને લોખંડની એહમીયત સાફ દેખાતી
હતી.
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" જો પસંદ આવ્યુ હોય તો… તમારી દીકરી, બહેન
અને આખી ફેમીલી જોડે સેર કરજો………"bapa sitaram

 I start  this article with this What's app massages . On this women's day I got many massages and  greetings about  women's day that is 8th March 2016. And I am became shocked when I red this massage. In this degital era still  people are going to construct their mind in such a way. I mean like really?
     There is one sentence that "TIME CHANGES EVERYTHING"
      But in this case I did't find  anything like that, this is all about constructing mind of women on one or the another way. It is like they give another cage to women which is bigger that earlier.
    Methaphore like 'diamond ' and 'gold' are like gold chain in which women are also love to live. One another surprising thing is that the person  who send me this massages is women as well.
   I must say, in this 21st century we are reached to Moon and Mars, but we are not able to reach or find where is the freedom of women??
   If I says it in another way than it is  "Free play  of words". It is to cantrol  women's mind with the help of language. Every girl or women have to raise their voice against this type of silly  massages , which is for canstructing women's mind for men's perpose.
  "So ladies, Go for rebel
And say, what the hell"

Comments

  1. Vaidehi Hariyani12 March 2016 at 07:51

    very well written Beena. Rather than answering appropriately the saint gave the girl the same message which she learnt from childhood.Just he made use of metaphors but the question remained the same.Girls are soft and delicate as diamonds so they cannot be like boys. I mean really????. As student of literature many times people especially male taunt us about using Feminism as well, but i think they are not aware that girls are able to apply it practically as well.

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  2. beenagohil12 March 2016 at 08:39

    Yes vaidehi, this what i exetlly i tried to convey by this post. This male dominated society wants that women are obidiant to them. And by giving this type of massages they tried to do so. But targic thing is that women also share this type of massages vety proudly. So we see that how constructed mind women have.

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  3. Unknown30 March 2016 at 07:30

    nice thought laduba, i am also agree with you. Only thing girls need is Chance to prove them.

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  4. beenagohil31 March 2016 at 08:07

    Thank you miss Bhumi to share your view about my blog. this is my small attempt to make aware the world to stop this kind of silly massages and think beyond that.

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